Happy Hump day. If you’re like me, you’re counting down until Friday, even though 2 days isn’t nearly enough to rest. How about a mid-week temperature check. How do you feel right now? I think it’s important to ask yourself this, so you can make a conscious effort to change, if necessary. Normally, I’d be […]
A Mini Rant
As a single parent, working full time, there’s nothing more unappealing than a grown man who just wants to fuck on you. I apologize if my post sounds a bit repetitive, but hey it’s my blog, and I deserve a mini rant. It’s a rewarding job, but it’s exhausting and it’s not for the weak. […]
Gaslighting, sound familiar
If you were ever in a relationship(situationship) with a narcissist, this was probably a reoccurring theme. It’s so subtle, and most of them are so good at it, you’ll legit be thinking you’re out your fuckin mind. Doubting everything that crosses your mental, and apologizing for shit that’s not your fault. Hello to you too […]
Dating During Covid
Well first I’d like to say, thanks a fucking lot covid. Dating during covid, has been funny, if nothing else. Boys were already trying to get away with doing the bare minimum while receiving the maximum benefits. The false pretense of trying to get to know you has evaporated. Let’s head straight to the bedroom […]
Happy New Year .. Again!
Because the first month of January has been hectic with a move across the country, I’d like to formally start my new year over February 1st. So happy new year, again! That’s right, why not? Who says I have to wait another year, to give my year all I got?! I don’t mean completely start […]
I was Ready for Different
I was ready for different. I made a plan last year, and I stuck to it. Prior to Kennedy, I had wanted to move out of California. I felt as if I’d done all I could there, and I wanted some changes that would force me to elevate. After doing my research, and narrowing down […]
Okay Love .. I’m Ready for you
I’ve been fighting love for some time now, but no more I say. I am so open to love, and giving someone my authentic self. Being unable to be forthcoming with my feelings or emotions as an alpha woman has stalled me. Meeting an educated black man with common interests, has definitely forced me to […]
The theme is Abundance
For 2021, the them is abundance. Abundance in money, love, self care, and health. I’m so ready to take on this new journey, and I’m so at peace with everything that is coming. In exactly 2 weeks, I’ll be stepping out on my own. I’ve been living on my own since the age of 19, […]
Settle Down or Settling
It could be because I’m in my 30’s, but I’ve come across way too many people choosing to settle. I know this occurs at different times, different stages in your life, but it’s something about getting older that makes you feel hurried. It’s the belief that at 30, you should have everything figured out. At […]
2021 Vibes Manifestation
I’m excited for this upcoming year. I’ve been really trying to look on the bright side, and implore positive manifestation. Issues may arise, but if I take inventory of my blessings, I’m almost certain they’d outweigh the negatives. I said ALMOST! Happiness. This seemed to be the most impossible to hold on to. I was […]