Being alone isn’t scary, having never felt reciprocated genuine love is. That’s why it’s easy to settle for the bare minimum. Couple that fear with a few insecurities, and you’ve created the perfect gateway for manipulators, liars, and users. You respond to the inconsistent messages, you say yes to the random late night links, you […]
Pity Party of 1
I hate to be that girl. The whoa is me person. I’m just drained, and I know a big part of it is my fault. I know that I need to set boundaries, and put more value in myself. These expectations I’ve placed upon people, I need to let go. So why I allow shit […]
Too Damn Available
Doing some self reflection this morning and realizing that this is one of my biggest problems. This is why men from my past think it’s just so easy to come in/out of my life, with little to no effort. I’m making myself too damn available. Like I know that I prefer stability and familiarity, so […]
The Problem with Dating an Ex
So I’ve noticed a few things from interactions with exes, and essentially have learned the problem with dating an ex. My problem with dating my exes, to be more specific. Change! After not having been together with someone for soo long, the fact that you’ve changed/matured, is always an issue. I believe it’s because that […]
Home is Where the Heart is
I’ve made up my mind. We’re going home, lol! Really, Kennedy asking me to go home everyday and wanting things to be how they were, have definitely made an impact. Naturally, it’s got me thinking and I’m ready as well. Home is where the heart is. For me, us, that’s San Diego. We won’t be […]
I Get Lonely Too
If your first thought was the song from TLC’s album Fanmail, or Drakes remake, you obviously get me! But like the title says, I get lonely too. It sucks when you raise your standards and now you’re all lonely and shit. Lol, but no forreal, you definitely start questioning shit. Settling don’t seem so bad, […]
Embracing Change
It’s Aries season, lol, I’m so ready. The theme for this season is embracing change. A lot easier said than done, but I’m really trying to embrace the changes I feel coming. One has already occurred, and another is currently underway. The big move was the first one of course. It’s crazy that when I […]
Mid-Week Temperature Check
Happy Hump day. If you’re like me, you’re counting down until Friday, even though 2 days isn’t nearly enough to rest. How about a mid-week temperature check. How do you feel right now? I think it’s important to ask yourself this, so you can make a conscious effort to change, if necessary. Normally, I’d be […]
A Mini Rant
As a single parent, working full time, there’s nothing more unappealing than a grown man who just wants to fuck on you. I apologize if my post sounds a bit repetitive, but hey it’s my blog, and I deserve a mini rant. It’s a rewarding job, but it’s exhausting and it’s not for the weak. […]
Gaslighting, sound familiar
If you were ever in a relationship(situationship) with a narcissist, this was probably a reoccurring theme. It’s so subtle, and most of them are so good at it, you’ll legit be thinking you’re out your fuckin mind. Doubting everything that crosses your mental, and apologizing for shit that’s not your fault. Hello to you too […]